英语口语：Make the First Move 主动出击
Nick: So Cheryl, how do you make the first move?
Cheryl: Make the first move?
Nick: Yeah, when you’re interested in somebodyand you want to take it further: to become boyfriendand girlfriend.
Cheryl: I see. Make the first move! Well, first I think I would try to talk to the guy. Try toapproach him and maybe ask him some questions about himself. Questions such as, “Whereare you from? What do you like to do? Why are you here? ” Questions like that. And then Iwould see how he would respond.
Nick: So would you be physical? Would you maybe be huggy or … I don’t know ..
Nick: Flirtatious. Yes.
Cheryl: Flirtatious. Well, I think that would depend on whether I have the courage to beflirtatious or actively flirtatious. Maybe, I would use my body language to show him that I’minterested. Usually, when somebody likes a guy, they would probably lean in towards the guy,blink their eyes more than usual. Smile a lot. But I think if you have an interest in that person,your body should show it naturally and automatically.
Nick: Is place important?
Cheryl: Place? That is a very, very, very good question. If we are alone, then I think I would bemore brave and courageous in making the first move. But if we’re a room full of people, Imight not be as forward as I would be alone with the person.
Nick: So maybe would you make the first move and ask for a date or?
Cheryl: Ask for a date? I don’t think I have the guts. I don’t have the courage to ask for a datethe very first time I meet someone. I would probably have to meet them more than once, andget to know them and see if like that person more.
Nick: OK, I see.